Communication
The real trouble spot of any
relationship is in the area of communication. This trouble spot in essence is
the inability of spouses to understand the other partner’s view point and its
refusing to accept the expression of other’s view. It is more or less of
putting your views forward without any consideration as opposed to not
understanding it. The interest here then
seems to be about presentation of one’s own view point that must be listened to
and understand rather than trying to listen and understand other’s view. To
really understand your partner, you must of utmost necessity be willing to see
their views from their own perspective and not from our own.