Bringing back spark in your relationship

.BRINGING BACK SPARK IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Just as human being needs breathe to survive, so also our relationship/marriage needs a breath of fresh air to revitalize or to flourish. Giving your relationship what it needs to thrive is truly a loving gesture. Relationships then can be likens to a garden where flowers and plants are grown.

No relationship thrives of its own without the personalities ‘couples’ involved, caring and nurturing it, so as to foster a deep and loving relationship.   

Create an atmosphere of fun away from distraction of hassles of days work: - Create a scene of laughter where both can release some bottled up tension. Having fun with your partner should be vital ingredients in a relationship development. Not giving in to rigors of everyday life, have a discussion with your partner; like what would you like to do, where would you like to go, or would like to visit the cinema.

Learning and sharing life issues with your partner. When you come across a certain or a particular thing of interest that is of benefits for your relationship, then share with your partner and you may be surprise how grateful he/she is for this

Nice, truthful, and effective communication: -Continual Communication draws you closer together; therefore do not quit talking for this will help your relationship in a great deal.

6.  Love, sex, romance, and intimacy: - These are the main principles on which a loving relationship is based. Living together as couples without these vital ingredients would not just help, for these add sparks to rekindle a going out flame.

Readiness to resolve issues no matter what: - Giving up on issues easily is not the right step to a happier home, despite differing ideas and opinions, and the discomfort that comes with it; it must be faced and resolved.

Appreciation, moral support, accepting and agreeing. Complimenting your partner often lends credence to the fact that mutual love and respect both exist in your relationship. You just have to support morally, accept others weaknesses and lift each other up with soothing words that is healthy for your marriage.

Share dreams and aspirations. The whole essence of relationship/marriage is the coming together of two minds purposely to share dreams and aspirations. For there is fulfillment and joy when we achieve things together, looking forward to a thing and or pursuing things together. When you share you will always have something to look forward to achieving together.  Be not indifferent to each other’s dreams and aspirations

Admit your errors and talk about it. It’s a virtue when admitting to errors and mistakes in your relationships. However learning to understand and letting go of your partner’s errors and mistakes will turn around and add more joy to your relationship.

Think outside the box. The tried-and-true is good, but the never- attempted-before may be better. Therefore couples who share new experiences together develop a stronger bond together.

Sensitivity, acceptance, empathy, and forgiveness: - Challenges and storms are part of the total package of any relationship/marriage, which you might not easily fix. Then weathering the storms together, armed with forgiveness, acceptance etc will in no doubt show you the way and help the relationship to survive the situations.