There is absolutely no one that plans to marry only to get out of it later, but issues of life which was not correctly analyzed, brought about varying degree of stress, friction and unhappiness been experienced and it’s as a result of improper handling that leads to strife and or separation.
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I also know that some spouses have burning desire that is inside of them to have solution(s) to whatever problems that might be happening in their homes. However; here are some tips that needed not only to be known but also to act upon.
The first key or rule is ‘Team-work’; To achieve this you must develop a team like spirit (mind), meaning you’ll achieve things better together than doing it all alone independently. As a team you’ll consciously avoid or put aside self interest. On the pitch of play every footballer knows and understands the word ‘team-work’ while on the field of play. When you deal with issues and situations together, there and then acknowledge or appreciate each other for issues resolved together.
The second rule ‘Put in-check your Emotion’; Know of assuredly that offense would come and when it comes, do not give in to emotions running wild within you, that may result in name calling, playing blame game, silent treatment, criticism, accusations and putting-down that may lead to low self esteem.
The next rule is to get connected with your partner, meaning the closer you’re to your partner the stronger the bond of affection between you too. Although it may take time to develop, it’s not just something that develop overnight and for this to manifest, these helpful tips must be noted and guard against it; Avoid Selfish attitude, abuse not the Trust, avoid been Indifference etc.
Research again have shown that women enjoy a non sexual forms of physical contact ‘Touch’, like holding hands while walking along the street, brushing each other’s body as you walk together, lifting her by waist to grab something on the shelve, robbing bodies together or stroking her hair while watching TV program
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